The Ultimate Solo Date Guide: Best Ways to Treat Yourself on the Fleurieu
Who says date nights are just for couples? Some of the best moments in life come from embracing your own company, indulging in experiences that light you up, and taking yourself on a well-deserved solo adventure. Whether you're looking to unwind, explore, or tick something special off your personal bucket list, the Fleurieu Peninsula is the perfect place to celebrate you.
Here’s how to plan the ultimate solo date on the Fleurieu—because the best company is sometimes your own.
A Slow Morning by the Sea
Start your day with a sunrise beach walk, feeling the sand between your toes and the salty breeze on your skin. Take a moment to soak it all in—this is your time. Then, grab a coffee and pastry from a cozy seaside café like De Groot Coffee Co. (Port Elliot) or Karma & Crow (Aldinga) and settle in with a book, a journal, or simply the view.
Indulge in a Long, Leisurely Lunch
A solo lunch is a power move—no need to share your fries! Head to Star of Greece for an oceanfront meal, The Salopian Inn for an unforgettable paddock-to-plate experience, or Lost Phoenix Farm for relaxed farm-style dining. Pair it with a local wine or cocktail—because why not?
Take Yourself on a Wine Date
Explore McLaren Vale’s cellar doors at your own pace—no waiting, no debating, just you and the wines you love. Settle into the dappled sunlight at Down the Rabbit Hole, sip world-class Shiraz at Samuel’s Gorge, or go all out with a wine and chocolate pairing at Hither & Yon. Bonus points for bringing a notebook to jot down your favourite drops like a true connoisseur.
Adventure Just for You
If you're craving a little excitement, why not challenge yourself with a bucket-list-worthy adventure? Paddle through the Coorong on a guided kayak tour, take a scenic e-bike ride along the Encounter Bikeway, or try a stand-up paddleboarding session in Port Noarlunga. Prefer something slower? A solo hike through Deep Creek Conservation Park is the perfect way to recharge.
A Sunset Moment Just for You
End your day with a sunset picnic at one of the Fleurieu’s most breathtaking spots—pack some local goodies, pour a glass of wine, and settle in at Port Willunga Beach, Basham Beach, or atop the Myponga Reservoir lookout. Just you, the sky changing colours, and the sweet satisfaction of knowing you’ve treated yourself well.
A Night of Self-Care & Stargazing
After a day of adventure, slow things down with an outdoor bath at CABN or Lost Retreats, or head to Eucalypt Day Spa (McLaren Vale) for a solo pampering session. Want to end the night under the stars? Join a stargazing tour at Sellicks Hill or simply wrap yourself in a blanket and watch the sky from a quiet beach.
Because You Deserve It
Solo dates aren’t just about filling time—they’re about choosing yourself. Whether it’s a quiet moment by the sea, an indulgent long lunch, or an adventure that pushes you out of your comfort zone, the Fleurieu Peninsula is the perfect backdrop for making memories with yourself.
So go on, take yourself out—you won’t regret it.
